How could I go to San Francisco, visit Seattle for the first time, and not name the entry after a Pearl Jam song? Answer: I can't.
I took my first long vacation since July of 2006 for the past 10 days. Going back to San Francisco was a joy that is hard for me to put into words. Though I was technically there for a conference, I extended my trip into a vacation and then tacked on a brief visit to Seattle to see Noah and Maya. I didn't realize how badly I needed a vacation until I was on the plane -- I slept for the entire trip, and slept a lot more once I arrived at my host's house.
The first thing I did was get my rental car; the second thing I did was visit the nearest In-N-Out burger. If you haven't had In-N-Out before, you're missing out; it's the best fast-food burger in existence, and they use free-range organic beef. It can't really be compared to Five Guys or other places like that, because ultimately it's cheaper and less about size than about quality.
I went wine tasting in Napa Valley on my first full day, going straight to
my favorite winery. It was pretty much as I remembered, only now they charged for both tastings instead of just for the premium tastings. However, I tried (and enjoyed) some wines I'd never had before. The next day, I hung out in the city and visited my old neighborhood, ate at our old taquería, and walked the Sutro Baths at Ocean Beach as I had when I lived there in 2000 and 2001. At the top of Twin Peaks, I took some very cool pictures.
The
SIOP annual conference began on Thursday, but in all honesty the conference was not my main concern. Having identified the need to kick back, I was determined to make the most of it. I did attend several Thursday sessions, but most of them were not very engaging. This would be a pattern for me throughout the conference -- not too many of the sessions grabbed me with their subject matter. The best part was catching up with current and former students from my grad school program, as well as my department head. And of course meeting new people and networking.
On Friday night, my school hosted a reception for current and former I/O Psychology grad students. Afterwards, we realized that Kenexa (you can look them up) was throwing a massive party in a rented out section of the hotel. Turns out the party was open to all conference attendees...and had an open beer and wine bar. There was a fog machine, a large dance floor, a funk cover band and a lot of partying I/O Psychologists. Who knew we could party like that?
The next night I hung out with a former DC roommate who is now in med school at Berkeley. Early the next morning, I had to try to make a flight to Seattle. That didn't work out so well, but I made it there a couple of hours later anyway. It was good to see that Noah and Maya had become comfortable Seattleites -- and had acquired a stunningly beautiful house to boot. The inside was so amazing that I can't really remember what the outside looks like.
Seattle is so lush and green on account of all the rain that it was vividly clear why they call it the Emerald City. It's also a very laid-back place, with lots of friendly, smiling faces in spite of the sunlessness that dominates their weather patterns from November through April. Seattle doesn't get the most rain, but it has more overcast days and less sunshine in winter on account of its extreme northwest location. During the winter, if you're a working person it is quite easy to miss a sun that doesn't rise until well after many arrive at work and sets well before 5 p.m. However, the bonuses include white-capped mountains in full view of the city, amazing views, great temperatures and of course terrific food (especially seafood). Though I didn't have time to see them, the area also had game parks teeming with wildlife including bears, moose and more. I'm definitely going back for a longer trip at some point.
Ultimately, I learned that everything I loved about San Francisco still holds true for me today. The area speaks to me in very profound ways. I've never been more comfortable living anywhere else than I was there -- never felt more at ease in my own skin. It's still pretty much everything it always was when I lived there, and I would definitely move back without hesitation.
But not yet. I have plenty of work to do here first.